Life, experiences and encounters of various and varied kinds teach us many things, from which we can learn lessons. But you should know that according to experts, there are certain abilities that are important to dominate before passing the fifties.
Click through this gallery and find out what you need to know before celebrating your 50th birthday!
To transmit
By the time we reach the half-century, we have gone through many trials and learned a lot about life. That's why it's important to take time to pass on this knowledge to someone else.
This could be by becoming a mentor to someone or simply giving advice to someone who is younger and needs help or advice.
Spending time alone
It's important to learn how to spend time alone, without being constantly surrounded, whether in person or virtually.Experts believe that spending time alone gives us the space to process complex emotions and allows us to progress in work that requires deep focus.
Spot the lies
This is not always easy, but over the years, it is important to develop this capacity.For example, if a person gives away too much information or hides vulnerable parts of their body, you need to be on alert. Indeed, these details show that she is probably lying to you.
Moderate your relationship expectations
Whether you've been in a relationship for many years or you've just started a relationship, it's important to remember that not everything is rosy in a relationship.
It's important to have expectations, but they must remain realistic. Don't dream of Hollywood romantic movies because the reality is often very different.
Manage your stress
Of course, life is stressful. However, over the years, you must learn that this will not help you and that it is essential to know how to manage it.Try to focus on ways to control your stress and learn to identify sources of stress. Then find a way to manage it, using yoga, meditation, or another activity of your choice.
Defend your interests
Don't agree or don't want something? Let us know! We can sometimes tend to be shy, but with age, this character trait must change at this level.
When it comes to convincing people to give you what you want, it can be a good idea to ask for advice. The people who help you will become your allies.
Listen without speaking
If you've reached your fifties, you shouldn't run out of stories and anecdotes to tell. However, it is important to learn to listen instead of always talking.
Indeed, it is good to know how to listen to others, who sometimes just need to be heard. This is a quality that is often developed over time.
Working with someone you don't like
We don't choose our colleagues, and some people can sometimes take us out of our eyes. But life teaches us that we have to get used to it and learn to live with them all the same.
There are a few techniques you can put in place to make it easier on a daily basis, such as telling them that you are busy working on a task ordered by your manager. This way, you can avoid an unwanted conversation.
Negotiate
Knowing how to negotiate is a quality that can be usedin daily life as well as in professional life. Indeed, being a good negotiator will allow you to achieve some of your goals.
It can also help you be more empathetic, improve your listening skills, and even your sales techniques.
Play an instrument
Knowing how to play an instrument is an incredible quality, but it's also very important for improving your cognitive abilities. Learning an instrument has been shown to increase concentration.
It is possible to learn on your own, or with the help of tutorials available on the Internet. However, the majority of people prefer to learn with the help of a teacher, in face-to-face classes.
Public speaking
According to Warren Buffett, public speaking is one of the most important skills to learn if you want to advance your career.
And having communication skills is also beneficial outside the professional environment. Indeed, knowing how to express yourself in public can allow you to be successful in many areas of life.
Manage your finances
It is very important to know how to manage your budget in order to achieve your dreams and goals and live comfortably on a daily basis.
To learn how to manage your budget, you can help yourself by reading books on this topic, and also analyze and decipher your daily expenses.
Read quickly
Bill Gates once said that if he had to have only one ability, it would be to read fast. Indeed, reading is very important, but it requires a lot of time.
Having the ability to read fast allows you to save precious hours and thus read more books. Did you know that there are online courses to learn how to read faster?
Speak a foreign language
Nowadays, knowing how to speak a second language has become essential. Indeed, it can help propel a career, develop a business or improve self-confidence.
If you're not sure where to start, download the Duolingo app (there are many more too). This will allow you to learn at your own pace, from wherever you want.
Apologize
A sincere and effective apology is one that communicates genuine empathy, remorse, and regret as well as a promise to learn from your mistakes. In other words, you need to really believe you did something wrong and feel sorry for the hurt you caused. Here are some easy steps to help you learn how to apologize sincerely and effectively.
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